Everyone is different.  Everyone is a unique case.

When I meet a client, I love learning about who they are and where they come from.  I take pride in just listening to their stories and deepest darkest insecurities.

I usually feel humbled by their own experiences but also very privileged that they trust that kind information to me.  It is important to me to really understand who you are before I can coach you because in the end, no matter what we work on together, I don’t want you to become another me.

I want you to be  you… the most attractive, cool and confident you.

However, it’s always interesting to hear my clients think that their romantic problems are unique to themselves.  You know what?  You are not alone!  A lot of other people face the same fears.

Dig deep insider of you.  Are you afraid of liking women?  Are women scary to you?  Does sex scare you?

There’s actually a reason why I prefer group coaching sessions instead of private ones.  During a group bootcamp, clients have the chance to learn from each other.

Instead of comparing themselves to me or David Wygant who’ve both already gone through our own shares of pains and tribulations, they get to see other people in their own shoes.  They get to see how other people have learned from their own mistakes and how they overcame their own limiting beliefs.

It’s group therapy!

The key to romantic success is simpler than they believe.  Guys who come for coaching all have the same debilitating fears that prevent them from having the best dating lives they can want.   Read the rest of this entry »

The first time we met, you didn’t know who or what I was.

There was something that called me over.  From first impressions, you seemed nice.  From first impressions, I was fun.

There was an air about you that intrigued me.  Maybe it was the way you talked, the way you looked, the way you smiled, the way you moved.  I do not know.

I was a little hesitant at the beginning.  Would you be worthy of me?  Would you accept me for me?

As I talked to you, you opened up to me, you shared yourself with me, you made me feel relaxed around you, you made me laugh.

Pleasurable sensations tickled my body when I was thinking about you.

As I got to know you, I felt pulled to you by that invisible force.  Was I being hooked by you or were you being hooked by me?

No matter what we did together, you seemed mesmerized by me.  It was as if you were being hypnotized by me.

Every time I laid eyes on you, I electrified the air around you, I made you giggle, I made you feel like a kid inside. Read the rest of this entry »

You can see it.

You can feel it.

You can almost smell it.

On the surface, everything looks fine… but for the more emotionally in-tuned of you, it’s a feeling you can’t miss.  It’s the vibe you get when you see two people who were once in love now being disconnected.  Their eyes lack the fire that once made them come alive.  Their eyes wander.  Their motion feel out of sync.  Their soul scream quietly for attention, for affection, for love.

When you pay close attention, you can see so much in people.

That’s what I saw when I watched “Natalie,” a friend, at my family’s Memorial weekend barbecue.

She moved around the house caring for her two young children (less than 2  years old) with an empty gaze.  As beautiful as she was, her body looked tired.  Her husband was on the other side of the house socializing and mingling.

They took turns watching over the kids… but their interaction together felt emotionless.  I didn’t hear any words of caring or love towards one another.  Even when talking to each other, they moved like two people living in their own bubbles.

When food was served, the husband went and filled his plate just to come back to watch over the kids while “Natalie” went to fill hers.

There was no “what can I get you babe?” or “sweetheart, you should try this… it’s really good!”

After 15 minutes of the kid playing in the jacuzzi, Read the rest of this entry »