Comments on: Attraction vs Excitement http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/ Making Sense of the PUA Community Thu, 11 Mar 2010 08:47:00 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Pastiche http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/comment-page-1/#comment-741 Pastiche Wed, 16 Jan 2008 13:51:24 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/#comment-741 Actually the structures for AM and JM are the same. AM is: 1.) Open, 2.) DHV, 3.) Emotional Connection, 4.) Physical Connection. According to the Charisma Arts One Sheet, JM is: 1.) Open, 2.) Vacuum, 3.) Personal Vibe, 4.) Sexual Vibe. They're pretty much the same. I personally believe Neil Strauss was heavily influenced by Wayne this way. The Vacuum is a DHV in its own respect through being relaxed and demanding effort towards an interactive conversation. Also, I've always noticed the CA guys to have a fun, lighthearted, even dorky vibe to their interactions. TheApproach says that Verbalizing Lower Value (VLV) is a way of Demonstrating Higher Value. That's what Disqualifiers are in CA. All are ways of showing relaxedness and confidence. Every method has their own way of teaching how to open, gauge and ramp interest through having fun and getting a bit personal and physical, manage logistics, and make your moves. It's all the same Truth, but with different perspectives. I learned a lot of that from you Khiem! Anyway, I recently acquired a new motto from Troy of Charisma Arts: "Have a game plan. Forget the consequences." That about sums up my current Truth. :P Glad to see you're still blogging my friend. Actually the structures for AM and JM are the same. AM is: 1.) Open, 2.) DHV, 3.) Emotional Connection, 4.) Physical Connection. According to the Charisma Arts One Sheet, JM is: 1.) Open, 2.) Vacuum, 3.) Personal Vibe, 4.) Sexual Vibe. They’re pretty much the same. I personally believe Neil Strauss was heavily influenced by Wayne this way.

The Vacuum is a DHV in its own respect through being relaxed and demanding effort towards an interactive conversation. Also, I’ve always noticed the CA guys to have a fun, lighthearted, even dorky vibe to their interactions. TheApproach says that Verbalizing Lower Value (VLV) is a way of Demonstrating Higher Value. That’s what Disqualifiers are in CA. All are ways of showing relaxedness and confidence.

Every method has their own way of teaching how to open, gauge and ramp interest through having fun and getting a bit personal and physical, manage logistics, and make your moves. It’s all the same Truth, but with different perspectives. I learned a lot of that from you Khiem!

Anyway, I recently acquired a new motto from Troy of Charisma Arts: “Have a game plan. Forget the consequences.” That about sums up my current Truth. :P

Glad to see you’re still blogging my friend.

]]> By: Mystery vs. Juggler (What is the goal?) « Scott http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/comment-page-1/#comment-564 Mystery vs. Juggler (What is the goal?) « Scott Sun, 16 Dec 2007 13:25:00 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/#comment-564 [...] http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/ - Yes. this just about sums up what I was thinking about. I was a juggler method to be able to attract the Australian girls in my life. [...] [...] http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/ – Yes. this just about sums up what I was thinking about. I was a juggler method to be able to attract the Australian girls in my life. [...]

]]> By: itotem http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/comment-page-1/#comment-129 itotem Tue, 20 Feb 2007 01:52:50 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/02/04/attraction-vs-excitement/#comment-129 Yes, Juggler/Charisma Arts Method (JM) is founded on creating an emotional connection from the beginning whereas most indirect methods like Mystery Method (MM) or Annihilation Method (AM) focus on creating excitement first. However, you can definitely make the interaction exciting through JM by lightening up your conversations with jokes, teasing and games. If you are familiar with theApproach's theory, it's the concept of high comprehension level vs low comprehension level and high energy level vs low energy level. There are certain venues and certain women who are more prone to one or the other. Yes, Juggler/Charisma Arts Method (JM) is founded on creating an emotional connection from the beginning whereas most indirect methods like Mystery Method (MM) or Annihilation Method (AM) focus on creating excitement first. However, you can definitely make the interaction exciting through JM by lightening up your conversations with jokes, teasing and games.

If you are familiar with theApproach’s theory, it’s the concept of high comprehension level vs low comprehension level and high energy level vs low energy level. There are certain venues and certain women who are more prone to one or the other.

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