Comments on: The Often Overlooked Concept of Attainability http://www.kissntale.com/2007/03/07/the-often-overlooked-concept-of-attainability/ Your Social and Dating Life Uncovered Thu, 02 Feb 2012 11:20:04 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Streetwise Keen http://www.kissntale.com/2007/03/07/the-often-overlooked-concept-of-attainability/comment-page-1/#comment-159 Streetwise Keen Mon, 18 Jun 2007 23:05:49 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/03/07/the-often-overlooked-concept-of-attainability/#comment-159 Wow man, I can't believe I missed this post! After reading this I think I finally, fully get the idea of glimpses of value you were telling me about. I understood it a little but now I get it. I already have value as a human bieng. However if I don't show it, how will girls know I have value? On the flip side if I straight out tell her my value, I'm qualifying to her and I'm bragging ( -V, because would a person of value need to tell you he is a person of value?) So, the idea is to let people glimpse your value without telling her. So I can say something like "Oh, my friend's throwing a club event, why dont you come along? You have to let me know soon so I can tell him to put you on the VIP list." instead of "My friend owns/promotes clubs." The latter is bragging and means nothing to her outside of pleasent conversation, the former raises attainability, raises your value AND sets up a date. I also see how glimpses of value work. By allowing them to see bits and pieces of your value they know you are a person of value but they also want to find more. How do you know your friend, the club promoter? What does he think of you? Do you have any other friends like that? Do you go out to a lot of clubs? Your value, by letting them glimpse it, takes on a somewhat mysterious/intriguing quality which makes them want to find out more about you and your value. Wow man, I can’t believe I missed this post!

After reading this I think I finally, fully get the idea of glimpses of value you were telling me about.

I understood it a little but now I get it. I already have value as a human bieng. However if I don’t show it, how will girls know I have value? On the flip side if I straight out tell her my value, I’m qualifying to her and I’m bragging ( -V, because would a person of value need to tell you he is a person of value?) So, the idea is to let people glimpse your value without telling her. So I can say something like “Oh, my friend’s throwing a club event, why dont you come along? You have to let me know soon so I can tell him to put you on the VIP list.” instead of “My friend owns/promotes clubs.” The latter is bragging and means nothing to her outside of pleasent conversation, the former raises attainability, raises your value AND sets up a date.

I also see how glimpses of value work. By allowing them to see bits and pieces of your value they know you are a person of value but they also want to find more. How do you know your friend, the club promoter? What does he think of you? Do you have any other friends like that? Do you go out to a lot of clubs? Your value, by letting them glimpse it, takes on a somewhat mysterious/intriguing quality which makes them want to find out more about you and your value.

]]> By: Chris http://www.kissntale.com/2007/03/07/the-often-overlooked-concept-of-attainability/comment-page-1/#comment-158 Chris Sun, 11 Mar 2007 21:53:36 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/03/07/the-often-overlooked-concept-of-attainability/#comment-158 Hey Khiem; This is Chris, the guy who writes www.howtocooler.com which you've got in your blogroll. Just want to let you know that I'm moving all its content over to the, less corny, domain name of www.succeedsocially.com (How to have more social success). I'd totally appreciate it if you can update your link Cheers, Chris P.S. I posted this here since I didn't see your contact info listed... Hey Khiem;

This is Chris, the guy who writes http://www.howtocooler.com which you’ve got in your blogroll. Just want to let you know that I’m moving all its content over to the, less corny, domain name of http://www.succeedsocially.com (How to have more social success).

I’d totally appreciate it if you can update your link

Cheers,

Chris

P.S. I posted this here since I didn’t see your contact info listed…

]]> By: rev7 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/03/07/the-often-overlooked-concept-of-attainability/comment-page-1/#comment-157 rev7 Thu, 08 Mar 2007 02:09:25 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/03/07/the-often-overlooked-concept-of-attainability/#comment-157 I love you. Great post again! I think I'm going to change my summer internship from san fran to LA just so I can harass you more :P And to answer your question... Yes. You do need bigger boobs. LOL After reading your post, I was thinking about how you mentioned attainability being the window for people to access your value. I think I'm going to list the 3 biggest things that people see in me as valuable and start asking them to do them with me. Let's see how that works. r7/D I love you. Great post again! I think I’m going to change my summer internship from san fran to LA just so I can harass you more :P

And to answer your question… Yes. You do need bigger boobs. LOL

After reading your post, I was thinking about how you mentioned attainability being the window for people to access your value. I think I’m going to list the 3 biggest things that people see in me as valuable and start asking them to do them with me. Let’s see how that works.

r7/D

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