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Business:
Microsoft is hosting their 2nd annual Small Business Summit this week. I’ve spent a few hours today watching and listening to their keynote speakers online and it’s all great stuff! So go check it out if you have the time. It’s free and you can watch the presentations again within 72 hours if you missed the original time slot.
Sciences and Psychology:
I just read 2 articles that describe how body language, and more specifically how walking patterns play a role in what people find attractive in the opposite sex. These just confirm that if you have bad body language, FIX IT! The 2 articles have little videos that demonstrate what constitute an attractive walking pattern.
- How Body Shapes Up Takes More Than a Good Build from the Scientific American
- Secret of Attraction? It’s All Due to the Wiggle from the Telegraph newspaper in the UK
The next article talks about polyamorous relationships. Surprisingly, it appears that most people in polyamorous relationships “reported ’love’ or ‘connection’ as important reasons for staying together” unlike people in monogamous relationships who “often list external factors such as religion or family as major reasons for remaining committed.”
- Love Unlimited: The Polyamorists from New Scientist
Psychology Today has a couple of interesting articles as well. The first one debates the role of female orgasms in reproductive functions.
- The Orgasm Wars. The conclusions are pretty astounding:
- A woman’s capacity for orgasm depends not on her partner’s sexual skill but on her subconscious evaluation of his genetic merits.
- Women’s orgasm has little to do with love. Or experience.
- Good men are indeed hard to find.
- The men with the best genes make the worst mates.
- Women are no more built for monogamy than men are. They are designed to keep their options open.
- Women fake orgasm to divert a partner’s attention from their infidelities.
The second one talks about social anxiety. As I wrote before, overcoming approach anxiety and becoming socially confident is a learned skill.
- Confidence: Stepping Out. Here’s an excerpt:
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Mastering social skills requires tuning in to your self-esteem. But instead of being self-conscious and fixating on your anxiety, work on creating positive interactions that make the people around you feel engaged and happy. Focusing less on yourself and more on others will yield big payoffs in expanded social opportunities.
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Seduction Community News:
Not long ago, Erik “Mystery” Von Markovik split from Mystery Method to create his new home at Venusian Arts. Today, it seems that Vin “Woodhaven” DiCarlo is no longer affiliated with theApproach as he is not listed on theApproach’s homepage anymore. Instead, he now has his own website called DiCarlo Diclassified that is currently selling an audio program with workbook. Dan “Spirit Fingers” Rose, the author of the “Sex Revolution Handbook” and owner of the Sex Revolution Blog, also seem to have parted ways with theApproach to follow Vin DiCarlo.
I have edited my previous post about how the Seduction Community is divided to reflect the change. In any case, from having read the “Sex Revolution Handbook” myself and from having met Vin DiCarlo before, I can recommend any of their products with confidence to anyone interested in learning “Natural Structured Game.”
I guess the fact that the Community is reproducing itself is good, right? The Seduction Community is creating more babies! 
LOL
EDIT 03/20/07: From a recent theApproach’s newsletter, Vin wrote:
Hi Friend -
I’ve gotten a lot of questions in the last 24 hours about DiCarlo
DiClassified. Thanks for everyone who bought Dating Diablo and who
registered for my special private list. This list is only for my
personal friends and biggest supporters, so definitely tune in to
get exclusive new content from me and perhaps a few friends.About theApproach: I still train, write, and develop new content for
theApproach. It’s still my baby, and we’re still the best way to get
your game handled completely naturally. Thanks for all your support
of my personal projects and of theApproach.Vin
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March 19th, 2007 at 4:48 pm
Great blog by the way. Fascinated to see TMM mentioned here. That’s awesome.
For all of the legal briefs and the judge’s ruling against Erik, you can find it here:
http://therealsavoy.blogspot.com/2007/03/drama-v2.html
March 20th, 2007 at 10:36 am
The professional seduction community is made up of a bunch of little boys. Take a second to think about it and you’ll know what I mean
March 22nd, 2007 at 12:01 pm
Love Unlimited: The Polyamorists – link doesn’t work =(
March 22nd, 2007 at 12:13 pm
>>The first one debates the role of female orgasms in reproductive functions.
Interesting article. Very informative finds. And maybe it’s just me, but it seems like the article refused to point out the elephant in the room: women enjoy sex.
From an evolutionary stand point, they say men have orgasms which ensures they willingly seek out sex. They fail to apply that same logic to women :\
March 22nd, 2007 at 4:03 pm
Thanks for pointing it out, Woody. I just fixed it.
March 25th, 2007 at 10:44 pm
As you taught me, body language is a large part of what denotes your “vibe” when approaching. I still practice the gunslinger walk (I like pretending I have an real gun on me for a quick “Dont mess with me” kinda confidence feeling lol). It’s taking alot of time to get rid of all my usual unconfident body patterns but it’s coming slowly.
And thanks for the polyamorous article, I gotta show it to a few girls I want for MLTR’s >.>
As for the Orgasm Wars, a lot of that seems on par with the stuff in Sperm Wars. I just find it so interesting how humans are so hardwired for reproduction. I know guys who are in relationships who always spout off how they dont “need game”. To quote rhymefest: You don’t think you need game? Homie you better have it, cuz women cheat like men, only they’re better at it” Blatant misoginy and generalizations aside, I think the universal truth of that line is if you don’t show you have good enough genetic material then good luck… not only in finding but also in KEEPING a girl because when someone with “game” (thus better genes) comes along, it will be harder to keep her.
August 28th, 2010 at 9:28 am
Hi, Thanks alot for your post. You don’t know how this helped me.