Comments on: Understanding Precedence http://www.kissntale.com/2007/05/21/understanding-precedence/ Making Sense of the PUA Community Fri, 03 Sep 2010 01:59:23 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Easievibe http://www.kissntale.com/2007/05/21/understanding-precedence/comment-page-1/#comment-211 Easievibe Mon, 28 May 2007 07:39:52 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/05/21/understanding-precedence/#comment-211 Yes, this was another good one, thanks khiem. You are consistent with your precedent of good posts ;) Yes, this was another good one, thanks khiem.

You are consistent with your precedent of good posts ;)

]]> By: Streetwise Keen http://www.kissntale.com/2007/05/21/understanding-precedence/comment-page-1/#comment-212 Streetwise Keen Tue, 22 May 2007 09:16:05 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2007/05/21/understanding-precedence/#comment-212 I have been in that exact situation with the lateness before and I just let it go. I figured if I did a take away or told her something, she would know she got to me: not good. However by letting it go, I feel like I encouraged the behavior. Now I know how to deal with it! It's a really great tactic because the incentive for her to do it is that you would have done something nice for her... therefore not calling would be tantamount to shooting herself in the foot. So how would one go about making precedence that you see other girls? The only way to do this that I can figure off the top of my head is jealously plot lines. Would precedence work on handling flakes or is that only part of the equation? As for smooth transitioning would one aspect would be taking longer/revamping or reiterating an intention map? As always an awesome post! I have been in that exact situation with the lateness before and I just let it go. I figured if I did a take away or told her something, she would know she got to me: not good. However by letting it go, I feel like I encouraged the behavior. Now I know how to deal with it! It’s a really great tactic because the incentive for her to do it is that you would have done something nice for her… therefore not calling would be tantamount to shooting herself in the foot.
So how would one go about making precedence that you see other girls? The only way to do this that I can figure off the top of my head is jealously plot lines.
Would precedence work on handling flakes or is that only part of the equation?
As for smooth transitioning would one aspect would be taking longer/revamping or reiterating an intention map?
As always an awesome post!

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