Comments on: Show REAL Intent In Your Actions And Behaviors http://www.kissntale.com/2008/02/19/show-real-intent-in-your-actions-and-behaviors/ Making Sense of the PUA Community Wed, 07 Jan 2009 14:10:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Streetwisekeen http://www.kissntale.com/2008/02/19/show-real-intent-in-your-actions-and-behaviors/comment-page-1/#comment-1253 Streetwisekeen Tue, 01 Apr 2008 07:13:59 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2008/02/19/show-real-intent-in-your-actions-and-behaviors/#comment-1253 Very interesting. I'm noticing very few people in the field using emotional connection and I am beginning to use it more and more and finding that, the more I get them emotionally connected with me, the more I get emotionally connected to them. My emotional connection still needs work. I dumped most of it when I started pick up fearing it would lead to more friends zone but now I know that its a necessary part of the interaction. In a way, it seems as if comfort and emotional connection are really more advanced, while attraction building seems easy. Just another contradiction on this crazy path, I guess. Thanks for the feedback. Very interesting. I’m noticing very few people in the field using emotional connection and I am beginning to use it more and more and finding that, the more I get them emotionally connected with me, the more I get emotionally connected to them. My emotional connection still needs work. I dumped most of it when I started pick up fearing it would lead to more friends zone but now I know that its a necessary part of the interaction. In a way, it seems as if comfort and emotional connection are really more advanced, while attraction building seems easy. Just another contradiction on this crazy path, I guess.

Thanks for the feedback.

]]> By: Khiem http://www.kissntale.com/2008/02/19/show-real-intent-in-your-actions-and-behaviors/comment-page-1/#comment-1123 Khiem Tue, 18 Mar 2008 17:36:41 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2008/02/19/show-real-intent-in-your-actions-and-behaviors/#comment-1123 Hey SWK, Your actions should definitely be aligned with your intent. Going direct fast sexually on all your girls is fine if you are going to follow through with that action path. You CAN definitely get girlfriends like that. You'll probably get quite a bit of sex too but remember that if you go direct and not follow through, you will eventually turn them off because you attracted them by being sexually agressive. When they finally realize that you won't go forth because you ALSO want to get to know them better, you'll lose them because you misrepresented yourself. If you are more looking for "the one cool girl", then you should try to develop more of an emotional connection and see if she matches with your values and lifestyle without forgetting to build the sexual vibe in all your interactions. That way, she knows this is never going to be just a friendship. Hey SWK,

Your actions should definitely be aligned with your intent. Going direct fast sexually on all your girls is fine if you are going to follow through with that action path. You CAN definitely get girlfriends like that. You’ll probably get quite a bit of sex too but remember that if you go direct and not follow through, you will eventually turn them off because you attracted them by being sexually agressive. When they finally realize that you won’t go forth because you ALSO want to get to know them better, you’ll lose them because you misrepresented yourself.

If you are more looking for “the one cool girl”, then you should try to develop more of an emotional connection and see if she matches with your values and lifestyle without forgetting to build the sexual vibe in all your interactions. That way, she knows this is never going to be just a friendship.

]]> By: Streetwisekeen http://www.kissntale.com/2008/02/19/show-real-intent-in-your-actions-and-behaviors/comment-page-1/#comment-1104 Streetwisekeen Tue, 18 Mar 2008 05:43:57 +0000 http://www.kissntale.com/2008/02/19/show-real-intent-in-your-actions-and-behaviors/#comment-1104 I am coming to the same problem with getting numbers/dates ratio. I think with me, its a mixture of not enough sexual tension, too much sexual arousal and not enough comfort. However, reading this still makes me wonder if I am showing my true intent. Yeah, I really want girls to date, not really girls to take home that night and sleep with (thought that would be nice from time to time). So then I gotta ask myself why I am going sexually direct with so many girls? Hrm, something I gotta think about I guess. Great post man! I am coming to the same problem with getting numbers/dates ratio. I think with me, its a mixture of not enough sexual tension, too much sexual arousal and not enough comfort. However, reading this still makes me wonder if I am showing my true intent. Yeah, I really want girls to date, not really girls to take home that night and sleep with (thought that would be nice from time to time). So then I gotta ask myself why I am going sexually direct with so many girls? Hrm, something I gotta think about I guess. Great post man!

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