This is based on my own experience with women. I mean, I’m no Dr Phil,  but there are some things I’ve learned which scream praticality, and common sense. And I learned it in perhaps the toughest city of all for meeting women. New York City!

For most PUAs, the abundance mindset is based on the belief that you can get any woman you want. That’s definitely an empowering belief but it also puts a lot of pressure on you to “get sex” (and therefore chase girls). For them, being able to have mutliple girls is what helps them become relaxed enough not to psych themselves out on one specific girl.

For me, the abundance mindset comes from understanding that I can meet and connect with anyone. I am socially confident enough to act upon my desires when I see someone I want. I don’t necessarily can get EVERY girl but I know that it’s not hard to meet and attract someone new. The sex part is just a matter of follow-through.

If I was to borrow David Wygant’s line, it’s about realizing that “girls are commodities.” Most women already see men as commodities but guys usually don’t because we get stuck on “that one”. We are so goal driven that we forget the big picture. There are lots of girls you can meet. The question is: are you connecting and attracting them?

As far as openers ideas, I’ll write a post soon on that.