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Hello, my name is Khiem and I suck as a Pick-Up Artist (PUA).
For the past year, I have been a professional bum. You read right. I haven’t worked since September 2006. Instead, I have actively been exploring the Seduction Community. It’s been a very interesting journey in which I have met a lot of people. Some inspiring, some really awkward. Some have become really good friends, some I’d rather forget… but in the end, they are all good people (mostly).
What I have found is that the PUA Community is more than just about picking girls up. Don’t get me wrong. It starts there but eventually, it’s about building a lifestyle for oneself. It’s a self-improvement and a self-empowerment journey that teach men to be confident enough to pursue their own dreams.
Unfortunately, the Seduction Community is kind of a mess. There is a lot of information out there that you’d want to filter through. I found some advice unhealthy and unethical but I also found other things very powerful and inspiring. Depending on what you are looking for, you will find a little something that will appeal to you.
Why Kiss N’ Tale?
It’s simple. I wanted to record my thoughts on the Seduction Community. At the same time, I wanted to help others figure out what would be right for them as they learn to improve their dating skills.
Who Are You?
I don’t think I could ever become a true Pick-Up Artist. I’m just too lazy for that. I’m more of your local neighborhood social butterfly kind. All I care about is meeting truly interesting people and well… having some cool women in my life. I’m really not into bedding every single woman I meet.
I always have had lots of friends but I haven’t always been social (at least, not in the going out and partying sense of the term). When I was a kid, I was very popular with the girls. Then I grew up and moved to the U.S. at age 15 and suddenly, I found myself having more guy friends than girls. Go figure.
Hopefully by now, I think I’ve worked hard enough on myself where I attract the kind of men and women I’m really wanting to keep in my life.
Random Facts About Me
- My last job was with Countrywide Financial Corporation where I worked in their Correspondent Lending Division (CLD) as a Training Manager
- I went to Texas A&M University and majored in Political Sciences
- I was an avid Counter-Strike player and co-founded team [ExS] which placed 17th in the winter 2002 CyberAthlete Professional League (CPL) world competition
- I can speak 3.5 languages: English, French, Vietnamese and Spanish - you can try to figure out which one(s) I’m not that good at
- I was born in France
- Feminine girls turn me on
- I was trained in classical music, playing the violin and piano
- I like to try everything at least once, unless it’s detrimental to my health or well-being
- I’m into leadership, investing, management and pick-up/sex books right now
- Heroes is currently my favorite TV show
If you are really that curious about me, you can read:
- my journey into the Seduction Community
- my life aspiration
[last updated: 09/25/2007]
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February 18th, 2007 at 11:26 pm
Hi I’m Long. One of pastiche’s friends. I’m vietnamese by birth too. I won’t tell you who I am on the pimpology forums cause I’m going to be public about my identity on my blog but anonymous on those forums.
hey keep me updated if you become a social coach because i’m thinking about taking a seminar one day.
February 23rd, 2007 at 7:25 am
Hey man, thanks for linking to us. I’m glad you dig the show. We’re starting to give away free products, so drop us a line sometime!
-Jordon
http://www.pickuppodcast.com
June 2nd, 2007 at 12:42 am
Hey, we met at the SoCalLair meeting with Wayne “Juggler” Elise. Great to read about your background and bio, good luck with the Venture Capitalist career! Best Wishes!
June 28th, 2007 at 1:21 pm
You need to update your blog.
September 21st, 2007 at 11:17 pm
Didja ever get ’round to reviewing my seminar vids?
http://www.SeductiveReasoning.com
Johnny Soporno
http://www.SS4G.com
October 8th, 2007 at 3:33 pm
Khiem–
your link to the seduction community mess goes back to the old page.
October 9th, 2007 at 2:07 am
Thanks L, this has been fixed
December 13th, 2007 at 3:58 pm
hey dude
kick ass blog man
i just started mine out in South Africa
http://www.solidgame.co.za
December 16th, 2007 at 5:03 am
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January 24th, 2008 at 4:36 pm
Hey Khiem,
Just to let u know that i passed by your blog..Interesting & informative..
Keep it up dude. Do u kiss n tell?
January 24th, 2008 at 4:45 pm
Lou,
Should you even ask? -No-
March 12th, 2008 at 12:43 pm
Johnny Soporno,
I finally ended watching the first 2 videos of your site. Very interesting stuff. I might have to write something on it soon.
April 12th, 2008 at 1:12 am
I arrived on this site after a random google search for “When do u know that there is no attraction in a kiss” . I thought it would be another pricky Mr. Know-it-all but then I read it and find myself pleasantly surprised.
So then, presuming one fine day, you do manage to pick up a great girl, what do you do next?
Intriguing stuff….
April 12th, 2008 at 12:50 pm
Nitshuk,
Your question is very vague. What you do next is very dependent on how much you’ve done with the girl. Everything you do should be a progression of the previous interaction… and obviously, it also depends on what kind of relationship you want with her.
As far as knowing if there’s any attraction in a kiss, you have to pay attention to the girl’s body language and her receptivity to your touching.
Before the kiss, if you both can stand/sit close to each other, if there’s a lot of touching and your head/face always nearly touch… and if she looks at your eyes intently every so often, you can pretty much assume that there’s attraction.
However, some girls are very shy so you won’t know until you kiss her. As long as the girl is receptive to your touching advances, she likes you. When kissing, if she kisses back, then she likes you too.
You never know for sure unless she literally pushes you away.
May 10th, 2008 at 10:07 pm
Cool blog mate. It’s great to see someone with integrity spreading the love in the seduction community
I agree there is a load of info in the community but we all have a choice of what we will believe and we are all on our own path.
July 10th, 2008 at 10:33 am
I second that. Cool blog, indeed. You have a lot of good insight here, and glad to see more socially awesome people around the webz.
Take care,
A