Curiosity is the best form of attraction. 

At the end of 2004, a friend showed me some material from David DeAngelo and Juggler about picking-up girls.  Being the hardcore computer-video game playing guy that I was back then, I didn’t really have a girlfriend so I said:  why the hell not?  Let me see what the fuss is all about.

I didn’t really get into the whole pick-up scene right away, but I must have read or skimmed everything in the Community that I could find under the sun:  David DeAngelo, Wayne “Juggler” Elise, Mystery Method (now separate from Venusian Arts, theApproach, Real Social Dynamics, mASF, Asian Playboy, Gunwitch Method, David Shade, Sex God Method, Vin DiCarlo, Attract and Date, etc…  You name it, I probably have looked at it.

I found all of it very fascinating.  I was so intrigued:  what was the REAL psychology behind all these pick-up techniques?

Fast forward to fall 2005, Neil Strauss’ The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists showed me there were actually people doing this for a living.  As of 2006, I started applying the techniques and mindsets that I’ve read about all this time into my life.  It actually works!  That wasn’t enough for me though.  I had to see a real PUA in action.  I had to see the lifestyle for myself.  In september 2006, curiosity got the best out of me (again).  I signed up for a bootcamp from theApproach.   

Ever since then, things started to click and I got more and more involved in the pick-up scene.

• I became an Admin for the Natural Game Forums.
• I helped theApproach set up some of their Los Angeles bootcamps.
• I have mentored a few people through meet-ups, phone calls and instant messaging.
• I was a volunteer at the Los Angeles PUA Summit 2007
• And many more things that I can’t really disclose at this time…

So after all this time, what’s the secret to attraction? 

I’ll tell you this.

Curiosity is not only the best but the strongest method of attraction. 

You can do it in many different ways (banter, creating intrigue/mystery, adding value to the interaction as to make yourself look appealing) but in the end, creating a DESIRE in someone to get to know you is the key to solid game.

Be the story in people’s life.

Paint yourself in an attractive way.

Don’t take yourself too seriously.

Stay in the moment.

Trust your instincts.

Ride the vibe.

Be.

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[last updated:  09/05/2007]