The more I help people on bootcamps, the more I realize I enjoy coaching.  

Most of the time, I don’t end up coaching a whole lot of technical stuff.  Most of the bootcamps I help on are “natural game” focused anyways and as such, I usually talk a lot about mindsets, beliefs and perceptions.

The interesting part for me is to see that most of these students that come to bootcamps are REALLY good guys.  They are typically successful in their own rights in whichever areas they pursue but because of the focus society puts on us to become performance driven machines, they have forgotten to develop their (inter)personal skills.

All these guys are kind of like me in some ways.  At one point in their life, they forgot how to just enjoy the little moments, how to be present with someone, how to actively listen and carry a conversation.  They forgot how to truly listen to their own desires and how to have fun.

I know I talk a lot about the Seduction Community and its various facets but in the natural game side of things, very few people aspire to be Pick-Up Artists (PUAs).  They definitely want to meet a lot of women like the Pick-Up Artists do.  They definitely want to have more choice in the quality of women too but very few of them ever consider themselves a PUA. 

They don’t really approach women with a hunting mindset.  They usually think of developing themselves to be able to attract the women they want and for me, they truly embody the abundance mentality.

Most natural guys I have met are absolutely okay with (more…)