I’ll be honest. I wasn’t very good in college when it came to meeting the ladies. 

I was your typical nice guy.  I didn’t have the confidence nor the edginess to really attract them sexually. 

Classes and school clubs were great to meet them but beyond that, I didn’t know what to do.  

Worse of all, I was your avid video gamer back then.  All I knew was study, play Counter-Strike, sleep and eat… along with the occasional booze party.  Out of that list, studying was the most optional activity.

Looking back, I don’t have any real regrets because I learned so much about myself through my “playing video games for competition” phase.  As funny as it sounds, I did learn a lot about leadership and how to gain trust with people because all my social interactions were internet based. 

However, if I had to do it all over again, I’d take more opportunities to enjoy the college social scene.  How often would you find yourself in a highly concentrated breeding ground filled with hot, sexy, beautiful, young women who are open to “have fun” while in school?

Yeaaaaa…  That’s what I thought.  I can see you grinning from ear to ear right now.

College is an interesting time for most of young Americans.  That’s the time when you can still go out and mess up without getting too much in trouble.  So take advantage of it!  Interestingly, a lot of the young aspring Pick-Up Artists (PUAs) I’ve met in Los Angeles are college-aged.  I see them go out a lot and “practice” but I think they aren’t taking advantage enough of their college social scene.

They are afraid that they will get burned by practicing pickup in their college social circles.  They’re right!  You can’t do newbie drills or practice random lines in a college setting.  You also can’t focus ONLY on pickup.  That’d be total social suicide… unless you truly understand how to navigate that social scene and know what to focus on.

Having lots of girls in your life, no matter what you do, is a LIFESTYLE.

If I was in school again, I’d want to create that lifestyle with the help of Mark Redman’s Conquer Your Campus e-book in my backpack. 

Yep, forget clubs and bars.  Do you realize how many women are DYING to meet you in college?

I personally go on the UCLA campus once in a while just to watch people interact.  Every student there is in their own coma.  When’s the next test?  When’s the next project due?

If you wanted to approach, meet and talk to someone, there is no competition.  It only takes one tiny bit of courage and energy for you to take girls out of their daily routine and for you to get them completely enchanted by you.  (more…)

I went to UCLA with a friend of mine yesterday.  I was going to help him get over his approach anxiety. 

I don’t know how or why but I have no approach anxiety anymore so it’s only normal that I want to help a fellow mate.  

I used to get the ”little butterflies in the stomack” feeling once in a while before but in the past 1-2 months, it completely disappeared.  I can approach in just about ANY environment… whether it’s a club, a house party, a bar or well… a college campus.  I’m also having a lot more fun with my interactions.

I feel sooooo free!  The ability to talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere feels very liberating.  However, this new freedom also made me sad for my friend.  I really want him to get over it or at least not get debilitated by it.  I’ll probably share with you guys how you can get over approach anxiety for good in another post but right now, I want to talk about college game.

College game is SUPER easy!  I walked all over campus and there wasn’t a girl I couldn’t talk to.  The one single greatest thing about girls on campus is that they have a propensity to be friendly.  Everyone on campus assumes that you are a student and as such, they assume they’ll probably run into you again.  So why not be friendly?

For example, there was this HOT Persian girl in the bookstore.  [OK, it's NOT the girl in the picture below but she really looked like her.  She was wearing nice form-fitting jeans and a beige sweater.]

I asked my buddy to go talk to her based on the first 1 or 2 things he noticed about her.  He noticed how she was carrying 2 bags and was wearing light brown platform running shoes but (more…)