I can’t remember ever feeling this in my life.

Have I ever felt not good enough for a girl?  Sure!  But to actually acknowledge that someone is out of my league, never!

I just watched the movie of the same title last week and by the end of the movie, I started calling my girlfriend “Molly”.

“Molly baby, you are totally out of my league.  I have no idea how I got you!  I totally had to hope that you were imperfect in some ways so I could believe I could be with you,” I said to her in a sarcastic tone.

She hit my arm, rolling her eyes and laughing at the same time.

If you haven’t seen the movie yet, I highly recommend it.  You’ll get a good laugh.  Maybe you’ll even see yourself in that movie but truth is… isn’t that kinda sad?

How many of you actually feels this pain, this void in your soul… telling you that you aren’t good enough when you see a woman you are attracted to?  How many of you truly believe that you aren’t worthy of love, worthy of attention?

How many of you actually rank her on a scale of “desirability factor” and compare yourself to that number?

Why?!?!??!? (more…)