Everyone knows how image is important when your desire is to meet and connect with people. The way you present yourself, the way you carry yourself, the way you move all contribute to creating a certain vibe that people, particularly women, will use to base their first impression of you. I’m currently reading Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking by Malcolm Gladwell and I’m realizing now that we, as human beings, use lots of small visual cues to subconsciously make snap judgments on people. With that in mind, using good image becomes even more important than ever before.

I met Erin Stelzer at the Los Angeles PUA Summit in August. She was the featured Fashion Consultant who gave guys from the audience a free consultation for a makeover. The first thing I noticed about her was her energy. She felt very at ease in a room full of men and she was more than enthusiastic to discuss how guys could become more confident with women. Since she read Neil Strauss’ book The Game and therefore knew about the Seduction Community, I thought: who better than her could give YOU guys tips on how to improve your image?

In this very first Kiss N’ Tale video interview, I am proud to have Erin talk about fashion dos & don’ts and discuss her perspective on the PUA Community, make-up for guys, and peacocking. The interview lasts about 43 minutes. Bear in mind that this is my first interview on camera as well… so I was a bit nervous at the beginning.

I know that the quality of the video could be better but I’m still learning how to work this whole video thing. If any of you guys want to teach me how to edit future interviews in more professional manner, please contact me. Until next time, enjoy!

This is the continuation of my previous Los Angeles PUA Summit 2007 Summary, pt. 1 post.

SUNDAY 08/26

7:45 a.m.: I wake up. I’m still tired from yesterday, but I get ready and head to the Roosevelt. The Way of the Superior Man: The Teaching Sessions is currently playing in my CD player but I’m really not in the mood for that. Who cares about masculine and feminine energy if I can only open my eyes half-way? (Ok, fine. I’m Asian and have slanted eyes, so what? lol) I quickly switch to some hit music station. Bam bam beedee boom boom. Ahhh, that’s better.

8:45 a.m.: I’m greeted at the door by RadiantSun’s smile (formerly known as the “White Woman” if you’ve been reading some of my previous entries this year). I’m so happy to see her! I feel like I haven’t talked to her in ages. I give her a nice hug. As I like to say: it’s not a hug until you feel the titties squish! She’s wearing a yellow shirt today. I let her do her thing. She’s helping Christina (Johnny Wolf’s sister) check-in the guests. (more…)

It is so interesting how one simple question can be so hard to answer.

I first heard that question from my friend Marc about 2 years ago. We were leaving a ballroom dancing class and he and I stood there for half an hour chatting about life. He was very excited that night. He was sharing with me the things he has been learning from Zen meditation, his new-found hobby. He just couldn’t stop telling me about it.

You see, Marc was the kind of guy who was full of energy. He was the kind of guy who was constantly in motion. He loved riding his motorcycle fast down the curvy mountain roads around the area we lived. He loved falling down out of the sky, cutting through the air as he jumped out of an airplane many thousands of feet above ground. He loved sharing memories with friends over a nice home-cooked meal. Among many other things, he also really loved women. He was the kind of guy who loved life. He was a man full of passions… and Zen meditation provided him the calmness and quietness he needed to slow down his fast-paced lifestyle. (more…)