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    February 3rd, 2013  (9)
How to Deal with a Breakup – HBO Girls Ep 2 Guys’ Commentary (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Podcast, Product Reviews

Elijah and Hannah in HBO Girls Season 2

As promised, here’s the second podcast for the week.  I’m a little behind the TV schedule but this second episode of HBO Girls touches on a lot of really good topics.

In this podcast, Evan and I talk about:

  • What NOT to do after a break-up
  • What are some of the best things you can do to give you a chance to win her back
  • How you can use a woman’s vision of her life to your benefit
  • The truth about why some men are commitment phobic
  • How women can encourage men to be more open to marriage
  • How open communication is crucial during “tough decision” times in a relationship
  • Why noise sometimes cloud even our best intentions for the relationship
  • Why men need to sexualize their image more to make their dating life easier

As usual, leave your thoughts in the comments.  If you have questions on your own dating situation, don’t hesitate to email me.

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    January 18th, 2013  (2)
When Is the Right Time to Sleep with Someone (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Podcast

If you haven’t been following my blog lately, the Charming Rogue audio program was released last month.  If you feel you have problems with attracting women because you don’t know what to say, you don’t know how to be playful and flirty, you don’t know how to grab her attention or keep her interested, maybe it’s time you get some help!


Today, instead of starting my HBO Girls commentary right away, I decided to answer some more questions from my readers.  I usually focus on guys’ issues but this time, I decided to answer two great questions from women.

  1. Is it safe for me to sleep with a guy after 2 months of dating?  In short, when is the right time to sleep with someone?
  2. How do you deal with a guy that goes soft in the middle of sex?  Is it me?  Is there something I can do?

My answers my surprise you.

Unlike generic dating advice that you may find in Cosmo, I dig deep into the root of the issue and give you specific steps and reasons you need to take into consideration before you come to your own conclusions.

  • For example, are you looking for a relationship or something just for fun?
  • Do you use sex as a bargaining tool in the relationship?  And if so, why this may be actually detrimental to the loving relationship you are trying to build
  • How do you view the role of sex in a relationship?
  • Why your attitude towards sex will dictate how successful you will become in your relationship
  • Why how much respect you have for someone is what determines whether sleeping with someone early becomes a hook-up or not
  • How waiting for sex too long can actually create pressure to perform the first time you hook up
  • How you can alleviate sexual performance anxieties by focusing away from genital stimulation
  • And much more…

A lot of times, the answer will become clear to you if you understand what you truly value in the current relationship.  So without further ado, listen to what I say to these women.



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    December 19th, 2012  (0)
Should I Care About What Women Think (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Podcast

Happy happy holidays!

We have one more week to go before Christmas and I sure hope you have finished all your Christmas shopping.  I sure haven’t!

With all the upcoming festivities, it’s been hard for me to keep up with my weekly podcast but that’s because I’ve been recording an audio series for you guys to listen to soon.  The audio program will be about how to develop a playful, witting, charming and seductive personality.

So make sure to stay tuned for more details soon.

In the meantime, today I invite Evan to help me answer one of the biggest questions guys have when they start getting better with women:  should you care about what women think?

More specifically, should you change how you talk or approach women by guesstimating what they are thinking about.


In this podcast, we discuss:

  • How it’s normal to want to be liked and care about what people think about you (within reasons)
  • How to know when to stop caring about what other people think
  • Why your attitude and feelings about yourself matter
  • Whether “indicators of interests” (IOIs) are that important to understanding how a woman feels about you or not
  • Examples of how even Evan and I can’t always know what’s going on in a woman’s mind and how it still does not matter

Take a listen.

This-is-how-a-woman-think_2-550x456After you are done with the podcast, I encourage you to ask questions.  Post them below and I’ll answer them.

I’ll see you next week!


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