If you want to learn anything fast in life, nothing beats having a mentor.

But short of having a mentor, how about just asking what other successful people do?

Today, I have the privilege of interviewing one of my good friend Eric about his take on dating and what he thinks men specifically need to learn about women.  You’ll hear some of his personal dating stories, you’ll laugh, and more importantly, I hope you learn something from it.

Without further ado, give a hand to my friend Eric for spending a good hour sharing his insights on the matter.

Topics covered include:

• Some of the qualities/traits Eric feels gives him an edge in dating
• What process does he use to go from online meeting to real date
• How he manages to bring up dirty talk or phone sex to a woman
• The latest crazy date he’s been on
• How having sex early with a woman affects the way she perceives your future potential
• The potential negatives and disappointments of online dating
• Gold diggers
• Funny logic from unexpected women
• 3 things you can do to be more like Eric

Kiss N' Tale Interview with Eric [ 1:01:55 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

If you liked this kind of podcast, make sure to let me know.  I’m wanting to refine the topics I cover with you guys so post a comment.

I’ll see you next week.

Last week, I didn’t make a podcast because I was out of town traveling to San Francisco.

To make up for it, I decided I’d do a video interview instead this week!  Yay!!!

A few years ago, I watched a neat YouTube video called “Yellow Fever” from Wong Fu Productions.  It was touching and hard to watch at the same time because the main character shared thoughts that I used to have many years ago.  Truth is… I don’t think anyone ought to think like that and I know that you can date whoever you want, regardless of race.

It’s time to forget stereotypes and show what real Asian males think of dating in a multi-cutural environment.

Watch “Yellow Fever” first…

Then watch me interview my friend Kai on his experience with dating women from all over the world.

Lots of more fun stuff are coming up so stay tuned!

As usual, if you want to share a story about your experiences dating or wants to be interviewed, email me.  I’m currently looking among other things for women who want to make fun of guys and bad sex, Asian guys who wants to talk about dating interracially.

As usual, I’m also open for ideas so ask and comment away!

There are times when I am amazed at the kind of honesty and deep kind of stuff I get to talk about with my guy friends late at night.

If you’ve read my blog for a while, you know I am all about demystifying incorrect beliefs.  I’m all about thinking and living life in a way that helps you achieve the things you set yourself to achieve.

So today, I decided to share with you my raw self.  You get to see me chat honestly about life and dating.  You get to see a side of me that not everyone gets to see unless you know me for a while… or unless you do long-a coaching with me.

Manuel is a friend of mine I’ve mentioned in a previous blog.  He was the jock who needed help with dating.  I’ve helped him for a few months and boy oh boy, he has come a long way since then.  Let’s just say he’s been having some fun.

A lot of the concepts I teach in bootcamps or in private coaching sessions are stuff I’ve experienced and studied myself… and more importantly, stuff that I have experimented with by teaching it to friends to see how it affects their lives.  That’s how I know whether the stuff I talk about works or not.

Grab yourself a cup of coffee or whatever your favorite drink is before reading.

It is a long post but you have plenty of time!!!  You have all the time in your life actually because…  well… we ARE talking about life.

1:16:18 AM Manuel : we tend to get lazy
1:16:22 AM Manuel : in relationships
1:16:23 AM Manuel : men
1:16:30 AM Manuel : don’t you think
1:16:30 AM Khiem : no… I typically don’t
1:16:37 AM Manuel : hmm
1:16:39 AM Khiem : b/c I put a high emphasis on always appreciating
1:16:52 AM Khiem : if I keep the idea of rewarding her behaviors by showing appreciation in various forms
1:16:55 AM Khiem : it keeps her hooked
1:17:04 AM Khiem : so I may get lazy on initiating sex
1:17:08 AM Khiem : but I don’t get lazy in the relationship
1:20:35 AM Manuel : yes, I meant in terms of sex
1:20:45 AM Manuel : sometimes I feel like the fact that it is guaranteed
1:20:52 AM Manuel : makes us take it for granted a little bit
1:20:57 AM Khiem : well maybe for you
1:21:01 AM Khiem : I try to not take it for granted
1:21:01 AM Manuel : in relationships
1:21:03 AM Khiem : b/c I told you before
1:21:07 AM Manuel : hahaha
1:21:08 AM Khiem : if you don’t do the effort to keep her happy
1:21:09 AM Manuel : i know
1:21:14 AM Khiem : her eyes and heart will start to wander
1:21:19 AM Khiem : it’s your job to keep her hooked
1:21:19 AM Manuel : YOU are the Supafreak
1:21:31 AM Khiem : just as it’s her job to seduce us with her femininity
1:22:19 AM Manuel : makes sense
1:22:35 AM Manuel : do you feel that requires a lot of attention on the man’s part? (more…)