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You’ve known her for a while.

She’s that friend of yours that always seem to be happy and smiling.  You don’t know why but you guys never dated.

Sure, you hang out.  You always laugh a lot together.  You know each other like the back of your hand.

And when it comes to romance, she’s always had a boyfriend or some guy she’s dating.  Or when she was actually available, you were involved with someone else.

Funny thing is… it feels so comfortable to be around her.  You can catch her looking at you that way sometimes.  Sometimes, you flirt back with her.  But she’s your friend, isn’t she?

In this podcast, Evan and I discusses all the signs that a woman may give to show you romantic interest.  If you’ve ever struggled in understanding women’s intentions towards you, this is a must-listen!

• What I learned from watching “The Science of Lust” on YouTube
• How the feeling behind the type of physical touching you have with someone could indicate romantic interest
• How women who like you will always use verbal flirting hints to show interest in you
• Why women who like you may be initiating and supportive of the things that are important to you in your life
• The only mindset trick you need to live by to avoid having to ever wonder if a woman likes you
• Why you need to view attraction as a process instead of a feeling
• Why being the initiator is your biggest advantage in dating

Kiss N' Tale - Is She Into You or Is She Just Being Friendly [ 25:31 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

So if you are in a situation where you don’t know if someone likes you or not, instead of waiting, ask them out.  If you are afraid to ask, I need to ask you:  why wouldn’t they want to be with you?  Aren’t you the best there is?

I’m catching up on my HBO Girls schedule.  I’ve watched all the episodes so far this season; I just haven’t had the time to make a podcast for each yet!

So far, season 2 of HBO Girls feels like a total roller coaster to me.  Every episode brings such sweeping surprises that I don’t know what to expect anymore.  If Lena Dunham was trying to get us constantly wondering about what’s going to happen next, well… she’s succeeding.

The first scene sets the tone for this episode:   when’s the last time you did something for the first time?

If you can’t remember, it’s time to get yourself out of your comfort zone.

And this is usually the very reason why some are better than others at life, not even just dating.  If you aren’t pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, you aren’t growing.  If you aren’t allowing yourself to be open to new experiences, you becoming boring.  And if there’s nothing exciting for you to share, then why would anyone want to date you?

I went out last night with Evan and a couple other friends.  We tried a brand new restaurant.  The food was great, the crackling of the fire in the patio turned the mood into a warm cozy vibe… and I believe it was our ability to smile, be open to new people that allowed us to meet two great girls!  Hopefully, we will get to enjoy their company again soon.

One of my clients, who still happens to be a virgin, was texting me last night too!  He has finally gotten himself to go out and enjoy life in the last few months with no prejudice and with no restraints.  And what I was most happy about was to hear how he has been making out with her heavily for the past few days.  He was so excited!

But none of that would have happened if he didn’t push himself out of his comfort zone.

In this podcast, Evan and I share with you:

• What “Be Yourself” really means and why it is still good advice for most people
• How getting out of your comfort zone is a must for you to grow into a more attractive person
• How you can become a better storyteller by having excitement in your voice because you’ve been trying something new
• Why being well-rounded is attractive
• How nice guys should not be afraid of breaking rapport with a woman
• Why Jonathan Booth’s handling of Marnie’s initial resistance to his charm was irresistibly seductive
• Why you need to try starfish sex tonight and report back
• Why you need to stop judging people on the amount of sexual partners they’ve had

Kiss N' Tale - HBO Girls S02E03 Review [ 45:59 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

As promised, here’s the second podcast for the week.  I’m a little behind the TV schedule but this second episode of HBO Girls touches on a lot of really good topics.

In this podcast, Evan and I talk about:

• What NOT to do after a break-up
• What are some of the best things you can do to give you a chance to win her back
• How you can use a woman’s vision of her life to your benefit
• The truth about why some men are commitment phobic
• How women can encourage men to be more open to marriage
• How open communication is crucial during “tough decision” times in a relationship
• Why noise sometimes cloud even our best intentions for the relationship
• Why men need to sexualize their image more to make their dating life easier

Kiss N' Tale - HBO Girls S02E02 Review [ 48:29 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

As usual, leave your thoughts in the comments.  If you have questions on your own dating situation, don’t hesitate to email me.