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    January 18th, 2013  (2)
When Is the Right Time to Sleep with Someone (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Podcast

If you haven’t been following my blog lately, the Charming Rogue audio program was released last month.  If you feel you have problems with attracting women because you don’t know what to say, you don’t know how to be playful and flirty, you don’t know how to grab her attention or keep her interested, maybe it’s time you get some help!


Today, instead of starting my HBO Girls commentary right away, I decided to answer some more questions from my readers.  I usually focus on guys’ issues but this time, I decided to answer two great questions from women.

  1. Is it safe for me to sleep with a guy after 2 months of dating?  In short, when is the right time to sleep with someone?
  2. How do you deal with a guy that goes soft in the middle of sex?  Is it me?  Is there something I can do?

My answers my surprise you.

Unlike generic dating advice that you may find in Cosmo, I dig deep into the root of the issue and give you specific steps and reasons you need to take into consideration before you come to your own conclusions.

  • For example, are you looking for a relationship or something just for fun?
  • Do you use sex as a bargaining tool in the relationship?  And if so, why this may be actually detrimental to the loving relationship you are trying to build
  • How do you view the role of sex in a relationship?
  • Why your attitude towards sex will dictate how successful you will become in your relationship
  • Why how much respect you have for someone is what determines whether sleeping with someone early becomes a hook-up or not
  • How waiting for sex too long can actually create pressure to perform the first time you hook up
  • How you can alleviate sexual performance anxieties by focusing away from genital stimulation
  • And much more…

A lot of times, the answer will become clear to you if you understand what you truly value in the current relationship.  So without further ado, listen to what I say to these women.



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    January 10th, 2013  (8)
6+ Dating Tips for Shy Guys (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Articles, Podcast

Following last week’s show, I have received requests to give you guys more specific tips on where shy guys can meet women and how they can start or carry the conversation forward.


Without much fanfare, this podcast is meant to answer all your questions.  On this show, you will learn:

  • The attitude that will allow you not to worry about other people seeing you chat on women
  • Why being noticed and seen by others is a good thing instead of being invisible
  • How to come up with comments or openers to start a conversation
  • Places you can go to meet women without being the social butterfly
  • Why going out alone is actually an advantage
  • How to keep the conversation going after you start the conversation
    • Having a story in mind to share
    • Going deeper by asking the right questions
    • Using a cold read or an assumption
    • Asking for an opinion or for advice
    • Using multiple choice questions (aka double binds)
  • Why it’s not always bad to interrupt people and interject them with a random thought

With all these new tips, I sure hope you are starting the new year right!  Go out, get on some new adventures this month, this week!  And come back and tell me how things went.

Next week, I’m either going to answer another question from a female reader about sexual performance anxiety and when is the right time to sleep with a guy… OR give you a commentary on the new season of HBO Girls.  You decide!

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    January 3rd, 2013  (1)
How Do I Attract Girls If I’m Shy (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Articles, Podcast

Happy happy new year!!!

Who here really believed the world was going to end?  I sure didn’t!

As such, I want to celebrate the new year by giving you another exciting podcast regarding a very common topic:  how do you attract women if you are shy?

Just Shy, Not Antisocial

Looking back, it’s interesting for me to talk about shyness.  At one point in my life, I used to think of  myself as shy.  I don’t ever believe I was a naturally shy boy but after moving to the United States from France at age 15, the culture difference is what made me shy.  I remember myself to be fairly quiet with my own peers in high school.  I was often seen as the funny guy in class but I never knew how to have a real conversation with students of my own age.

Maybe it was the fact that I didn’t know anything about American pop culture at the time.  I knew nothing about football, or common American sitcoms.  I just didn’t know how to connect with my peers, which translated into me being even more uncomfortable talking to girls I liked.

But many years later, after too many self-help book readings, I decided never to label myself as a shy boy again.  And that’s why I’m proud today to talk to you about how you can turn shyness into an advantage in dating.

In today’s show, I have impromptu guest Clara join Evan and I in discussing:

  • How resolutions only work if you put it down on paper as goals
  • The reasons why some women prefer non-shy guys
  • Some of the problems that shyness brings in dating
  • The “I’m the hot bitch” attitude that may help you overcome your shyness
  • The 3 emotions that someone must feel to start the dating process, regardless of whether you approach them as a shy person or a confident one
  • The advantages of being shy
  • How shy people should capitalize on strong non-verbal communications and intrigue to attract women
  • Why you need to make talking to everyone a habit to avoid putting women on a pedestal
  • The one skill you HAVE to master if you are shy:  WHEN to engage the other person and show interest
  • Why shy guys can be the best at challenging women back by using the information they’ve already told you

If you like the podcast, make a comment!  Take this opportunity to also write about problems you have in your dating life and I’ll make sure to talk about it on the next show.

In the mean time, you can also check out my brand new audio program Charming Rogue on how to develop a playful, witty, charming and seductive personality!

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