Happy happy holidays!

We have one more week to go before Christmas and I sure hope you have finished all your Christmas shopping.  I sure haven’t!

With all the upcoming festivities, it’s been hard for me to keep up with my weekly podcast but that’s because I’ve been recording an audio series for you guys to listen to soon.  The audio program will be about how to develop a playful, witting, charming and seductive personality.

So make sure to stay tuned for more details soon.

In the meantime, today I invite Evan to help me answer one of the biggest questions guys have when they start getting better with women:  should you care about what women think?

More specifically, should you change how you talk or approach women by guesstimating what they are thinking about.

In this podcast, we discuss:

• How it’s normal to want to be liked and care about what people think about you (within reasons)
• How to know when to stop caring about what other people think
• Why your attitude and feelings about yourself matter
• Whether “indicators of interests” (IOIs) are that important to understanding how a woman feels about you or not
• Examples of how even Evan and I can’t always know what’s going on in a woman’s mind and how it still does not matter

Take a listen.

Should You Care About What Women Think [ 22:59 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

After you are done with the podcast, I encourage you to ask questions.  Post them below and I’ll answer them.

I’ll see you next week!

Happy after Thanskgiving week!  Did you guys buy a lot of things during Black Friday?

After taking a week off from the blog for family time, I am back today to answer two questions I received in my inbox:

1. How should I talk to a woman who already has a boyfriend?
2. How do I keep someone interested in between dates?

Stay tuned and listen to:

• Why you need to have the right mindset and be clear on what you want as you talk to the woman who has a boyfriend
• Whether you should ask about her current boyfriend or not
• My own personal experience with attracting a woman with a boyfriend
• How to know whether making a move on a woman with a boyfriend is right or wrong
• How to choose how often to contact a woman in between dates
• Why being playful and making things fun on the phone can keep the attraction going between dates

Kiss N' Tale - How to Talk to a Girl Who Has a Boyfriend [ 35:13 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

Moving forward until the end of the year, I’d like you to send me more questions about situations you’d like me to answer.  The new season of HBO Girls is coming soon and I can’t promise I’ll have time to personally help you when it starts!

Don’t you want to have someone to cozy up to this holiday season?

It’s time to get merry 🙂

Most dating advice focuses mostly on one thing:  what do you need to change, in yourself, to attract the love of your life.

For men, pick-up advice focuses a lot on what to say and what to do to make your personality more attractive to women.

For women, a lot of dating advice zones in on how they can make themselves look more appealing through fashion and make-up tips.  In addition, they also suggest how women need to change the way they think about men to find the right man.

All this inner change talk is mostly healthy.  Taking full responsibility for your shortcomings is a necessary step to improving that aspect of your life.

However, I also find plenty of issues with too much “inner change” talk.

The problem with “self-help” advice is that it keeps you in the mode of “I’m not good enough.”  There’s always something for you to fix or improve about yourself.

And when it comes down to your romantic life, you know as well as I do that:

You are the most attractive when you feel the most confident and happiest about yourself.

So today, let me ask you simple question:  are you really that bad?

Are you so bad that you can’t find someone to go on a date with you… to hook-up with you… to love you?

When are you going to be enough?

On today’s show, Evan and I discuss the most common lifestyle, social habits and presentation issues people have that hinders their romantic successes.

Most of these issues are external (meaning you don’t need to do a lot of internal change to benefit from it).  As such, they are easy to implement.  You just have to choose to do so.

Have a listen.  Topics covered include:

• Is your place ready to have guests over?
  • Thing you can add to your home to create conversational pieces
  • Ways you can arrange things to encourage guests to linger and stay over
  • Why location is important to maximize your dating success
• Do you have a social life and is it reflective of the dating goals you have?
  • Why a social life helps you tell stories to captivate your targeted audience
• Why group outings alone won’t help you find your next boyfriend or girlfriend
  • How 1-on-1 outings help you practice flirting and builds intimacy, whether you are just friends or more
• Why being a man gives you a competitive edge in choosing who to date
• The basic steps of meeting to going on dates
• The importance of creating a sexual romantic vibe by showing interest
• The simple trick to remove self-doubt and act with conviction
• What you need to play up to intrigue your targeted romantic interest
  • How dressing up like your closest archetype is an easy way to attract
  • Why challenging and calling people out draws positive attention to you

Simple Things You Can Do to Improve Your Dating Life [ 45:48 ] Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

As usual, I welcome suggestions.  If there are other things you think people can do to improve their dating situation, write them below in the comments.

And after implementing all these ideas into your love life and you still have problems, contact me.  You’d be surprised that a quick phone consultation with me could be the fastest solution to your issue.

Until next time, have a great weekend!