November 29th, 2012  (0)
How to Talk to a Woman Who Has a Boyfriend (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Articles, Podcast

Happy after Thanskgiving week!  Did you guys buy a lot of things during Black Friday?

After taking a week off from the blog for family time, I am back today to answer two questions I received in my inbox:

  1. How should I talk to a woman who already has a boyfriend?
  2. How do I keep someone interested in between dates?

Stay tuned and listen to:

  • Why you need to have the right mindset and be clear on what you want as you talk to the woman who has a boyfriend
  • Whether you should ask about her current boyfriend or not
  • My own personal experience with attracting a woman with a boyfriend
  • How to know whether making a move on a woman with a boyfriend is right or wrong
  • How to choose how often to contact a woman in between dates
  • Why being playful and making things fun on the phone can keep the attraction going between dates

Moving forward until the end of the year, I’d like you to send me more questions about situations you’d like me to answer.  The new season of HBO Girls is coming soon and I can’t promise I’ll have time to personally help you when it starts!

Don’t you want to have someone to cozy up to this holiday season?

It’s time to get merry 🙂

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    November 14th, 2012  (0)
How ONE Cool Guy Approaches His Dating Life (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, First Impressions, Interviews

If you want to learn anything fast in life, nothing beats having a mentor.

But short of having a mentor, how about just asking what other successful people do?

Today, I have the privilege of interviewing one of my good friend Eric about his take on dating and what he thinks men specifically need to learn about women.  You’ll hear some of his personal dating stories, you’ll laugh, and more importantly, I hope you learn something from it.

Without further ado, give a hand to my friend Eric for spending a good hour sharing his insights on the matter.

Topics covered include:

  • Some of the qualities/traits Eric feels gives him an edge in dating
  • What process does he use to go from online meeting to real date
  • How he manages to bring up dirty talk or phone sex to a woman
  • The latest crazy date he’s been on
  • How having sex early with a woman affects the way she perceives your future potential
  • The potential negatives and disappointments of online dating
  • Gold diggers
  • Funny logic from unexpected women
  • 3 things you can do to be more like Eric

If you liked this kind of podcast, make sure to let me know.  I’m wanting to refine the topics I cover with you guys so post a comment.

I’ll see you next week.

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    November 9th, 2012  (1)
Simple Things You Can Do to Improve Your Dating Life – Podcast
Posted by Khiem in: Articles, Podcast

Most dating advice focuses mostly on one thing:  what do you need to change, in yourself, to attract the love of your life.

For men, pick-up advice focuses a lot on what to say and what to do to make your personality more attractive to women.

For women, a lot of dating advice zones in on how they can make themselves look more appealing through fashion and make-up tips.  In addition, they also suggest how women need to change the way they think about men to find the right man.

All this inner change talk is mostly healthy.  Taking full responsibility for your shortcomings is a necessary step to improving that aspect of your life.

However, I also find plenty of issues with too much “inner change” talk.

The problem with “self-help” advice is that it keeps you in the mode of “I’m not good enough.”  There’s always something for you to fix or improve about yourself.

And when it comes down to your romantic life, you know as well as I do that:

You are the most attractive when you feel the most confident and happiest about yourself.

So today, let me ask you simple question:  are you really that bad?

Are you so bad that you can’t find someone to go on a date with you… to hook-up with you… to love you?

When are you going to be enough?

On today’s show, Evan and I discuss the most common lifestyle, social habits and presentation issues people have that hinders their romantic successes.

Most of these issues are external (meaning you don’t need to do a lot of internal change to benefit from it).  As such, they are easy to implement.  You just have to choose to do so.

Have a listen.  Topics covered include:

  • Is your place ready to have guests over?
    • Thing you can add to your home to create conversational pieces
    • Ways you can arrange things to encourage guests to linger and stay over
    • Why location is important to maximize your dating success
  • Do you have a social life and is it reflective of the dating goals you have?
    • Why a social life helps you tell stories to captivate your targeted audience
  • Why group outings alone won’t help you find your next boyfriend or girlfriend
    • How 1-on-1 outings help you practice flirting and builds intimacy, whether you are just friends or more
  • Why being a man gives you a competitive edge in choosing who to date
  • The basic steps of meeting to going on dates
  • The importance of creating a sexual romantic vibe by showing interest
  • The simple trick to remove self-doubt and act with conviction
  • What you need to play up to intrigue your targeted romantic interest
    • How dressing up like your closest archetype is an easy way to attract
    • Why challenging and calling people out draws positive attention to you

As usual, I welcome suggestions.  If there are other things you think people can do to improve their dating situation, write them below in the comments.

And after implementing all these ideas into your love life and you still have problems, contact me.  You’d be surprised that a quick phone consultation with me could be the fastest solution to your issue.

Until next time, have a great weekend!


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