October 10th, 2012  (1)
The Ultimate “How to Flirt” Podcast
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Articles, Podcast

This week, I’m super excited as I have a real treat for you.  You are in for a full hour’s worth of tips on how to improve your flirting!

That’s right!  Are you tired of not knowing what to say to women?

Have you had women not go out with you because they thought you’d be boring?

Do you want to know how you can get women more attracted to you by the way you talk to them?

This is the week when I share with you the very techniques I use when I go out talking with women.   Instead of going over all the topics that MTV Guy Code episode 12 had, I focus all of this hour to talk about flirting.

It’s time to get it on!

In this podcast, I talk about:

  • What is flirting?
  • How to create a flirty smile
  • What you can do to make yourself noticed
  • What should your flirty smile say to a girl
  • The right way to make the girl laugh from the tension she feels with you
  • How making flirting a part of your daily life can dramatically make your dating life easier
  • The techniques you can learn to improve your flirting skills:
    • misinterpretation
    • sensory storytelling
    • unique playful questions and teases
    • roleplaying
    • use of long pauses
    • challenges and dares
    • sexual innuendos
    • dirty talk
  • Best way to turn a woman on
  • The biggest mood killer

As you listen to this podcast over and over again, make sure to take notes because I want you to take this week to go out and practice!  Once you do, make sure to come back and post some stories in the comments.

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    April 19th, 2012  (6)
Podcast: Flirt More!
Posted by Khiem in: Articles, Podcast

[Update 04/19/2012 @ 4:26 pm:  Podcast download and streaming has been fixed]

There’s something very different that  happens to you when you are sitting in a recording studio.  I don’t know what it is… but you feel you want to share something with the world, that you have something you want to broadcast.

So guys, you can thank my buddy Evan for inspiring me to record a little audio for you today.

The topic of the day is:  FLIRT!  That’s right.  If you secretly dream of having that James Bond like studly-ness, you have to get in the habit of flirting.  Obviously, it takes practice to get good but you won’t get better until you keep doing it.  The more you flirt, the better your lines become… and the more fun you are having.

Does It Feel Like Boyfriend Material

As you listen to this podcast, look over these hints to help you on your way to flirting mastery!

  1. Be playful.  The essence of flirting is to be playful.  I would go as far as say:  be mischievious.  There’s nothing more fun than talk to someone and realize that they mean more than they let on
  2. Use role plays set in the imaginary future or past.  I know you don’t know the person yet, but suggesting or implying that you already have a prior bond (like childhood friends, former lovers, common activity buddies, etc) has a way to just get people to feel like they already know you
  3. Allow yourself to be a little suggestive in your voice tone and eye contact when you want to imply more than friendliness
  4. Don’t be afraid to be bold and to push the girl’s buttons.  When you push someone’s boundaries, you’ll quickly find out what kind of girl she is and you’ll discover who she really is.
  5. It’s OK to use sexual innuendos when done at the right time and if you are going to use them, learn to use metaphors and imageries
  6. Tease her and challenge her to something spontaneous or adventurous.  A little bit of competition can only turn into a win-win situation
  7. Misinterpret some of the words you hear her use
  8. Be a little full of yourself.  Nothing is hotter than a man with confidence.  One way of doing this is to imply that she already likes you.  At times, I have been known to pretend that she’s the one hitting on me.
  9. Feign playful disinterest or light skepticism when she does something funny or say something important to her.  It’s good to show that you have your own differing opinion from hers too!
  10. Occasionally play coy once she starts being suggestive with you
  11. Know when to be real and have a genuine conversation and when to spike the conversation emotionally with your flirting

Flirting is an art.  You will find your own style the more you do it.  So get out there, put your gadgets away and go make someone giggle!  But before you go, don’t’ forget to add your own tips in the comments section 🙂

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