January 10th, 2013  (6)
6+ Dating Tips for Shy Guys (Podcast)
Posted by Khiem in: Articles, Podcast

Following last week’s show, I have received requests to give you guys more specific tips on where shy guys can meet women and how they can start or carry the conversation forward.


Without much fanfare, this podcast is meant to answer all your questions.  On this show, you will learn:

  • The attitude that will allow you not to worry about other people seeing you chat on women
  • Why being noticed and seen by others is a good thing instead of being invisible
  • How to come up with comments or openers to start a conversation
  • Places you can go to meet women without being the social butterfly
  • Why going out alone is actually an advantage
  • How to keep the conversation going after you start the conversation
    • Having a story in mind to share
    • Going deeper by asking the right questions
    • Using a cold read or an assumption
    • Asking for an opinion or for advice
    • Using multiple choice questions (aka double binds)
  • Why it’s not always bad to interrupt people and interject them with a random thought

With all these new tips, I sure hope you are starting the new year right!  Go out, get on some new adventures this month, this week!  And come back and tell me how things went.

Next week, I’m either going to answer another question from a female reader about sexual performance anxiety and when is the right time to sleep with a guy… OR give you a commentary on the new season of HBO Girls.  You decide!

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    January 4th, 2008  (1)
The Fail-Safe Way to Engage Someone in Conversation
Posted by Khiem in: Articles

Do I get nervous when I am about to approach someone?  Sure I do.  Sometimes.

Do I ever get blown out when I start talking to a stranger?  No.  Very rarely… if at all.  I personally don’t remember the last time I’ve had a crazy rude reaction to my approach.  Most of the time now, when I decide to approach, I’m just having fun with it.

When you are having fun, everything is effortless.  When you are having fun, you are creating energy and people are attracted to that.  You don’t think things too hard, you don’t care too much about a specific outcome and you definitely don’t get stuck on what people will think of you.  “Having fun” is a great mindset to have when you want to meet and attract a lot of people to your life.

But let’s be honest.  As much as I don’t think too much about how people perceive me, deep deep deep inside, I do want people to like me.  I do want to make a good impression.  If it’s a pretty and cool girl, I do want her to be attracted to me so that we can finally hold hands, kiss, make out and even possibly start having sex LOL.  So is there something magical that I do to engage people consistently in interacting with me?  Is there a magic phrase or word?

Well… no, there isn’t.

You already knew that.  If there was, I’d be a millionaire already.  However, I will let you in on a little secret.  There is something that I do every time before I even open my mouth.  For those of you who are a little bit shy and really need a step-by-step guide to “how to approach,” this is what I do.


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