October 10th, 2012  (1)
The Ultimate “How to Flirt” Podcast
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Articles, Podcast

This week, I’m super excited as I have a real treat for you.  You are in for a full hour’s worth of tips on how to improve your flirting!

That’s right!  Are you tired of not knowing what to say to women?

Have you had women not go out with you because they thought you’d be boring?

Do you want to know how you can get women more attracted to you by the way you talk to them?

This is the week when I share with you the very techniques I use when I go out talking with women.   Instead of going over all the topics that MTV Guy Code episode 12 had, I focus all of this hour to talk about flirting.

It’s time to get it on!

In this podcast, I talk about:

  • What is flirting?
  • How to create a flirty smile
  • What you can do to make yourself noticed
  • What should your flirty smile say to a girl
  • The right way to make the girl laugh from the tension she feels with you
  • How making flirting a part of your daily life can dramatically make your dating life easier
  • The techniques you can learn to improve your flirting skills:
    • misinterpretation
    • sensory storytelling
    • unique playful questions and teases
    • roleplaying
    • use of long pauses
    • challenges and dares
    • sexual innuendos
    • dirty talk
  • Best way to turn a woman on
  • The biggest mood killer

As you listen to this podcast over and over again, make sure to take notes because I want you to take this week to go out and practice!  Once you do, make sure to come back and post some stories in the comments.

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    September 27th, 2012  (0)
The “Online Dating and Value-Based Dating” Podcast
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Podcast

This week, I am inspired to talk about online dating as seen on MTV Guy Code Episode 10.  But before that, I want to share a little video of Neil Strauss, author of the book The Game:  Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists, that I found on imboycrazy.com.

I’ve met Neil Strauss briefly a few times many years ago.  I can’t say I know him personally very well.  I know a lot of people look up to him for his “pick-up” advice and I respect a lot of his work.  Yet I find myself intrigued and wondering how someone famous like him would really be behind closed door. When he is not in the limelight, how genuine and likable is he?

So watch the video and tell me dear reader:  is Neil Strauss “gaming” Alexi from imboycrazy.com?  Is he having a real conversation with her or is he charming her?  And if the latter, do you think they hooked up?

In addition, if you want to hear more of my thoughts on Neil Strauss, check out one of my older blogs commenting on his “Top 10 Mistakes Men Make When Approaching.”

On today’s podcast, Evan and I sit down to share our thoughts on:

  • How to think about online dating
  • Why you should try various online dating sites until you really know what you are looking for.  Don’t be afraid to go wild with your online dates and experiment!
  • Managing your expectations with online dating
  • What kind of pictures you should use.  In addition to what I suggested on the show, use pictures where you are having fun… and pictures that portrays you doing your favorite activity/hobby!
  • Why you should stop using lists on your profile
  • The worst kind of first message you could send to a woman
  • Why you need to tone down the cockiness if your messages tend to be on the arrogant side
  • Why you need to project yourself with an image that is in line with your relationship goals and values
  • How you can figure out someone’s character with good storytelling

As usual, I welcome all comments and questions.  If you want me to discuss one of your current specific dating situation, send me an email and I’ll try to answer it over the air next time.  Until then, have a great week!

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    September 21st, 2012  (1)
The “Moving In, How to Setup Your Bachelor Pad and How to Foster Brothers in Your Life” Podcast
Posted by Khiem in: Advice, Podcast

Last weekend must have been the strangest combination of good and bad luck I’ve had in a while.

The good part is:  Evan had a more than excellent birthday where we somehow happened to meet Madeline Zima from Californication.  I don’t get easily star struck so don’t expect crazy stories about her from me right now, but just from exchanging a few friendly words with her while offering her mini cupcakes from the Vanilla Bake Shop, I can tell you that she seems like a total sweetheart.

More cupcakes, Madeline? 🙂

Yes, she’s tall, yes, she’s pretty but that’s not what struck me.  Doing what I do for a living, I evaluate people a lot on their vibe rather than their words and Madeline probably comes across as one of the most down to Earth (and sane) and fun loving person in the entertainment industry I’ve met so far.  I know that on Californication, she portrays a very seductive character but I have to say, her attractiveness most likely comes from her confident “easy going-ness” and approachability.

Madeline Zima (Californication Season 2)
In case you are too lazy to search her up, this is Madeline Zima

I am sure that compared to most other (hot) actresses, she’s one of the few that most guys could imagine themselves “getting.”  In dating, there is something to be said about coming across as “attainable.”  If you don’t know what I’m talking about, make sure you read the article I wrote a while back on that topic.  (By the way, yes, I do like the way she carries herself.  Yes, I think her name is lovely since I have a penchant for most things French and no, I did not flirt with her LOL)

On the bad luck side, my friend Thuy got a flat tire (which yours truly fixed for her)… and then I got myself into a small fender bender.  Argh!!!  My car’s hood is all bent out of shape and my left corner light popped out.  Sigh…

However, THAT doesn’t mean you don’t get a podcast today and today, we are talking about topics inspired by MTV’s Guy Code episode 9!

  • Is moving in with your significant other a good thing?  And if so, when?
  • Are women messier than men?
  • Why your decision to have your partner move in needs to feel good and right to you (and her)
  • Does moving in prior to marriage dilutes the feeling of finally “being together” once married?
  • How to setup your apartment for maximum dating success
  • The importance of  having something to do at your place to make it comfortable for people to stay
  • How ambient lighting can be used to “force” people to get more intimate during your party
  • Why you should develop a strong circle of “brothers” for you to grow as a man, both in your dating and non-dating endeavors
  • Why sometimes… you need to cut the people who are are holding you back out of your life for you to achieve what you want to achieve
  • And yes… men do gossip

Remember, I always welcome your comments and questions.  If you have a dating situation you want to run by me, if you have an interesting story to share, send me an email!

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